Ben

Honey,
I know that this marriage has been more than you ever bargained for. After all the difficult moments we've had I feel closer to you now than I ever thought was possible. You have been my rock. And occasionally by bulls eye. You have had to endure my mood swings and insecurities, my outbursts and my fears. I cannot describe to you what you mean to me. Just when I thought I couldn't possibly love you any more I came home from the dr last summer and told you that she suggested a hysterectomy. From that moment to this you have done exactly the right things. You have taken care of me better than I deserve and still make it sound like I am doing you a favor by letting you. You have never made me feel that I was on your nerves or an imposition. You even willingly got up from your NASCAR race to come tend to me without seeming to mind at all. You are incredible! You know that I always say that I don't keep score. That is true, but I have to say I feel I owe you something big. No, that is not true. I don't feel I owe you. I just want to do something enormous for you. I also want you to know that I love you. Thank you for choosing to share your life with me.
Your proud wife,
Kristi