Why arent you more concerned...

Dear Husband,
I love you with all my heart. You are my best friend and the person I know I can always depend on. However, why are you so nonchalant about this surgery? Why are you making it not such a big deal. It is a big deal. To me..it is a big deal. I want this surgery, you know that, however because I also have another disease that may complicate my recovery I need you to be understanding and acknowledge this is major surgery.

Who know, maybe I will heal quickly and everything will be back to normal soon enough. But you never know what will happen.

I need you to prepare with me. I need you to understand why I am preparing like I am and to just let me plan what I need to plan. You need to let me figure out the kids and how to deal with them and your ONLY concern is to take care of me. Everything else will be taken care of ahead of time, IF you dont make me feel like this is jus some silly surgery that women do all the time.

Again, you are my best friend and I love you with all my heart. I have always been your princess and you have always been my white knight that saved me from me. But please my dear husband, just understand this could turn out to be a very big deal and you need to let me prepare and be prepared.

I love you with all my heart.
K.