to those who have been "dumped" pre during post surgery and envy these lovely dear **

Consider it a gift, my fine feathered friend, when you have been sadistically and selfishly "dumped" before your surgery--during your surgery--or after your surgery. Now is the time to set a new goal and dream a new dream. Hurry up and get thru the 5 stages of grieving over that dank slime of a beau. Be gentle to yourself emotionally every morning when you wake up. Reprogram those ugly thoughts. Remind yourself that you have the next half of your life to be however whoever whereever you want. And that, my lovely lady, will attract a new breed of peeps in your life. Believe me, he is not stalk worthy! Xo